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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 8, 2006 7:24:42 GMT -5
I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not...
I stalked him to his place of employment (Starbucks), bought a frappucino from him, then sat studying until he took his break and talked to me a little. Then I was going to go and he acted all sad and said, "Aw, you're leaving me!" So I stayed another hour until he got off, and then they closed and he came out and we talked in person until 2am.
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Post by Padre Romero on Sept 8, 2006 10:15:41 GMT -5
I'm not being sarcastic...thats pretty much a garuntee...then again, I thought I had a garuntee too, and I was wrong, so boo-hoo.
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Post by littlemrshart on Sept 8, 2006 12:03:47 GMT -5
I'm not being sarcastic...thats pretty much a garuntee...then again, I thought I had a garuntee too, and I was wrong, so boo-hoo. Padre likes everyone ;D Seriously, don't ask men for adivce on women. I do agree with Padre though, just ask him. No sense beating around the bush.
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Post by Padre Romero on Sept 8, 2006 12:21:55 GMT -5
I'm not being sarcastic...thats pretty much a garuntee...then again, I thought I had a garuntee too, and I was wrong, so boo-hoo. Padre likes everyone ;D Seriously, don't ask men for adivce on women. I do agree with Padre though, just ask him. No sense beating around the bush. when she agrees with me about dating, it's official...go for it.
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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 8, 2006 16:13:33 GMT -5
He'd better like me, because I think I'm pretty far gone now.
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Post by HannibalAtTheGates on Sept 8, 2006 16:37:25 GMT -5
I may offer advice, but when it comes to dating and relationships, I don't think anybody should follow it.
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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 9, 2006 21:00:32 GMT -5
Now we're skype flirting... all I'm getting is compliments. Where's the part where he asks me to dinner??
EDIT: Honestly, are guys really this dense? Is complaining that its a Saturday and Im not out doing something fun not an obvious cry to be asked out??
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Post by Padre Romero on Sept 10, 2006 0:37:42 GMT -5
Alright, I'm going to dish out my take on this...Hec and Amber have heard this rant before:
The long and short of it is, women are either A) All deeply insecure to the point of pain B) Too subtle for their own good C) Enjoying being hard to get
I'm going to jump to the assumption that you are a reasonably attractive woman, You like stuff most men like, nerdy computer games, good poetry, and the like, and you seem down with the whole womens lib thing, to quote anchorman...
Why not ask him out?
I mean really, what do you stand to lose? He obviously likes you, and even if the guy turns you down, he's at least going to be incredibly flattered...
I think women should do the asking for once, just to see what we go through.
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Post by kyndrid on Sept 10, 2006 0:50:59 GMT -5
Yea, it does suck, expecially because they all walk with a group of friends, who in the girl I likes case, happen to not be too fond of me.
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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 10, 2006 1:35:34 GMT -5
Well, first of all, I tried that once, and it was a complete and utter disaster.
Second, after spending hours on the computer, I finally suggested we go do something in real life. And I think that's what we're going to do right now...
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Post by HannibalAtTheGates on Sept 10, 2006 2:17:09 GMT -5
The long and short of it is, women are either A) All deeply insecure to the point of pain B) Too subtle for their own good C) Enjoying being hard to get don't forget D) Expect you to answer them without them actually saying anything.
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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 10, 2006 8:51:17 GMT -5
I think I'm in love. Crap.
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Post by Padre Romero on Sept 10, 2006 9:44:20 GMT -5
I think I'm in love. Crap. HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORAY!!!! (I'm a hopeless romantic, in case you didn't know) And I think I can say without fear of contradiction on behalf of all of us romantic men who are currently not in a relationship that you better bloody well TELL HIM NOW. Think of it this way....anything could happen. You could be relocated to outer mongolia* or someone else could swoop in and snatch him away...hell, the zombies could come tomorrow...anything could happen. and it is FAR better to be too soon than too late. Don't take my advice...it'll just make you look stupid. *AKA awsome-land.
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Post by littlemrshart on Sept 10, 2006 14:36:39 GMT -5
The long and short of it is, women are either A) All deeply insecure to the point of pain B) Too subtle for their own good C) Enjoying being hard to get why not D) As afraid of rejection as you are? Yeah, I've heard this before. But really, Art. You might want to at least suggest something.
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Post by Artaxerxes/SweetIrony on Sept 10, 2006 23:09:21 GMT -5
I think I've got him...
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